Living without preference is not a correct vision. It is still putting emphasis on the object.
The emphasis should be on the subject. It is not that all objects are the same, but that there is no longer an “object.”
When you live in openness, the emphasis falls in the right place. Each “object” has, then, its own significance, its real meaning.
In non-conclusion the world is rich and intelligent.
One must come to the state where there is a complete shift in energy from living in the known, to living in the unknown.
This is not the result of attitude, but the natural re-orchestration of energy which comes as the result of understanding, specifically the understanding that only in your absence is there ultimate presence.